Writing and Still Loving God

This blog is part of a link-up with the Writers Unite group (a Facebook writing group I’m apart of) answering the questions: How does faith influence your art? What role does it play? Does your faith have implications in what you write? You can read more answers to these questions this week by searching the Twitter hashtag #faithartlife.

God. Jesus. Christianity. Discipleship. Reaching the world.

Writing. Publishing. Blogging. Sharing my words to the world.

Two separate thoughts, two completely differing ideas…In my mind at least. For about 13 years now I’ve been “born again” believer. I’ve grown up in the Christian faith but it wasn’t until college that I made the decision to follow Christ based on my own knowledge of Him and not my parents/grandparents. So for about 13 years I’ve been wrestling with this faith, trying to understand it better and Him better and in the midst of that, trying to understand me better. I have had many struggles, a few mountains, several valleys, curves in the road, pitfalls, potholes and have fallen more times than I care to admit. But I will gladly share in the mountain top experiences and the hearing from God times. But I digress.

So during most of my Christian walk I believed (not consciously) that my Christianity was separate from my dreams. More honestly, I believed that I needed to keep these things separate. Why? Because God wanted everything from me, my sins AND my dreams. This was preached to me-because its true. So many times were spent on the altar giving God my everything. I said “God I give you everything, my sins, my hopes, my desires, my dreams.” I wrote it on a piece of paper “I want to be a writer” and laid it upon the altar. I wanted to be a good, no great Christian. I wanted to not only go to heaven but to be a faithful witness here on earth. I wanted to be an empty vessel to be used by God.

As you can imagine this left me empty.

What wasn’t as clear was: What do I do now? So I waited (on God but unfortunately more on man) for an answer. So I started back filling those empty spaces with stuff, hence the potholes and pitfalls. What I didn’t learn until much, much later (within the past couple of years) was that God wanted to refill those spaces with the things that I gave Him.

He didn’t want to take my desires and dreams. He wanted (still wants) me to offer these things to Him, as a “living sacrifice” so that in turn He can use my gifts and talents and dreams to His glory. WOW O_O (I really just got ministered to)

God is not a mean dad that takes a good thing and replaces it with a bad. Yes, I was one of the ones that was terribly afraid that God would call me to something I hated, or that was ill-fitting for me. But what good of a messenger would I be if He did that? How would that be beneficial to either one of us? I’ve seen what’s it like when someone is outside of their calling, it’s not pretty.

So I want to write, and act, and direct. And I’ve been hiding those facts, thinking that if I kept it secret then no one, especially God, could take it from me. But here I am not writing, not acting, not directing, while all the time God has been patiently waiting. Saying, “Stephanie, sweetheart, I want to help you achieve your dreams. I’m sorry for the ones that didn’t believe in you. I’m sorry for the ones that laughed. I want to see you prosper but I’m going to do it my way. Your way may get you a partial success but My way will get you a place in My plan and a seat in My kingdom. Lets do this together. You don’t have to fear because I got your back and your front. Matter of fact, My spirit surrounds you. Together we will go through the rocky places
and through the desert lands and I will catch you when you fall. And when it’s dark and you feel lonely, you will never be alone. I will always be with you. Trust me with your heart.”

Ok Lord.

How do you connect your life with your faith and your art? Do you consider these in the same conversation?


Happy New Year!

2013.  We made it!  Those Mayans were just full of themselves.  I wasn’t worried, I swear.  I knew I would be able to celebrate another birthday (Dec. 29) and I did.

So it’s 12 days into the New Year and I thought, “I haven’t written a blog post since November.”  I haven’t even wrote and update on my NaNoWriMo progress.  I won!!  That means I wrote 50,000 words to a novel (50,013 to be exact) .  What!  Yes, and trust me that was a huge feat for me.  I’ve never been so proud of myself.  Then somewhere in the middle of December I remembered, I didn’t finish the novel.  oops!  So of Course my inner critic have  been letting me have it.  I’m not really a winner because I didn’t finish the book and I’m not acting like I ever will.

So that’s been happening.

But I decided not to let it ruin my holidays.  I had time with the family, took pictures, received surprising and wonderful gifts and just relaxed.  I celebrated being 1 year older (blah) and celebrated seeing another year pass (I made it!).  Then back to work.

Now, on the 12th of January 2013, I’m tired, already.  I’m ready for a vacation.  Like the week took I in December never happened.  I’m waiting for the next 3-day weekend (off the 21st, yes!) so I can rest.  If this is how it’s going to be, then it’s going to be a long year.  And I’m starting off wrong, I’m dreading writing again.

“But it’s a New Year and a New Start!”  That’s what the Sunny Sunshine part of me is screaming.  The Cynic, the dark and twisty (shout out to Grey’s) side of me is softly saying “You will never change.  This will be yet another wasted year and your dreams won’t ever be realized.”

Why is the Cynic, who speaks softly, 100 times louder than the Sunny Sunshine?


I’ve made it another year.  I’m proud and blessed for that.  But this year, I have to kill the Cynic.  She’s strong and have a passion to live.  But she has to die, or at least lose her voice.  She fights back when I try to kill her and she has a powerful punch.  Her right hook will leave me avoiding  my computer for days.  And she is best friends with the Critic.  Together they are far worse than the mean girls in High school.  They are dream-killers.  Yet, the Critic can be a ok chick when she is alone and constructive.

Not this year though.  Although I’m not Sunny Sunshine (I hate her in the mornings, especially when she wakes me up before 5am), I need Sunny to keep me going.  She is encouraging, life-affirming, excited, and also passionate about her life.  And she likes to shout.  And use all caps.  She is annoying as heck but I need  her on this path.  She shouts, “YOU CAN DO IT!”  “YOU’RE A STAR!”  “YOU ARE PRETTY AND CAN WRITE!”  Thanks Sunny!  I do feel pretty today.

I don’t know what adventures that God has for me, or what bumps, hills or curves the road might take but I know that this year will be different because I’m striving to be different.

Are you doing New Year’s resolutions?  Are you worried that things won’t change?   How do you quiet you inner cynic?